Want vs. Need
The
Sovereign Lord is my strength;
he
makes my feet like the feet of a deer,
he
enables me to go on the heights. Habakkuk 3:19
It is always a pleasure to spend the
day with Pete. We have our annual visit every year at Easter. Occasionally we
squeeze in an extra visit but we can always count on Easter weekend.
To say that Pete lives a different
lifestyle than my husband and I is a vast understatement. Our home would fit
easily into one of his garages. He jets off here and cruises off there without
a second thought. There is plenty of plenty in his life while Otto and I count
ourselves blessed when our bills are paid and we’ve been able to bless someone
else.
Every year on our day before Easter,
just the three of us visit. We stroll through a tourist area near our home. We
talk. We eat and we “shop” by which I mean we mostly browse. Although there was
the one year that Pete purchased a piece of art the price of which would have
paid my bills for a month. See? We’re not exactly alike monetarily speaking and
this morning that turned into a huge blessing for me.
As we strolled along and I stopped to
admire a dress here, a teapot there, a really cute nightlight, Pete would say
to me, “Oh you need that.” At one point
I teasingly pointed out the difference between want and need and he quickly
assured me that wanting something often made it a need for him. He said, in so
many words, that the act of wanting easily slips into a need category for him.
I told him for me that was mostly true only of chocolate. We laughed and went
on with our day, me looking, and he pointing out that my “needs.”
This morning, after praising God for
my lovely hot shower (something I do often. Never take that loveliness for
granted!) I realized, not for the first time, how blessed I am. My husband and
I are in a season of struggle in some areas but not in our marriage. Though the
enemy has poked and tried to separate us we’ve actually grown closer. In
looking back at the things I “needed” yesterday I could easily see how much I
already have. While I was showering my husband, daughter and three
granddaughters were sleeping peacefully. Later today I will host a few more
family members and a few friends for a celebration of Jesus Christ’s amazing
sacrifice for us. My refrigerators are groaning with the weight of the food
inside them and I dare you to open my pantry without causing a shift in the piles
of bounty there. My home may be humble but it is filled with love. My family
may not be whole but we are all healthy. And…. Jesus Christ is risen! In other
words, I don’t “need” a single thing. Praise God!
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